Above everything my friend ,
Avoid self-deceptions.
"Know thyself" Socrates said.
And most of all stop searching in the fog,
For excuses, abstractions.
If you are going to judge others, 
Judge yourself too.
Don't hide the truth with virginal abstractions.
Give meaning to the expression,
The debate should have no hidden interpretations,
No second or third level perspectives,
Unfounded reconstructions, hidden motives.
No my friend, you died long ago.
You were burried in your own lies,
Your own misconceptions.
You had enough of that -
Now rise!
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All is not Lost - There's
Hope.